YOU NEED A ME (PART 1)

Since I think I am the perfect mate in a relationship. I wanted to share some of my qualities since it should be the qualities that everyone should look for within a partner.

1.Independent
Being independent is a great quality to have, you take care of yourself, and make sure that everything around you is in tip top shape. You seem to have it going on. But, lets not forget an independent person is also "dependent" to some extent. We all know that no one can do it all alone. No one wants someone they have to baby-sit. Once in a while, like if they have had a rough day at work, it’s great to be their shoulder to cry on, but if your mate can’t seem to wipe their butt without you handing the toilet paper to them, you will eventually feel like you’re suffocating, which is a surefire way for you to go running out the nearest exit. So when he or she says "no one does anything for me" they are either telling a bold face lie or, they are being really shallow. On the other hand, if they have their very own personality and opinions, and can stand on their own two feet, both financially and emotionally, and is able to enjoy time away from you – while still missing you, of course – then that starts to build the best person for you.

2. Intelligence
I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the ditzy dumb-blonde chick routine gets real old, real fast, and also the thugged out all I know are rap lyrics attitude. Instead of being the one in total control, you’ll find yourself trying to figure out what your mate is really thinking behind those glazed eyes (or if they are actually thinking at all). An intelligent person will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. They won’t let you get bored. Besides, it’s nice to have something to talk about between all that toe-curling, spine-busting "munching".(LOL)
Please do keep in mind that intelligence is not how many degrees you have but a combination of education and life experiences. I always tell everyone that I did not take the traditional route with my education but I learned some valuable lesson that I definitely hope to share with the young people that I come across.


......to be continued

BC Chandler

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