Keys In The Life Of B: What B Wants (Episode 1)

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Monday, June 14, 2010

What B Wants (Episode 1)

Mood: Unsure
Now Playing: Dondria "You're The One"

So tonight we shot the first episode of "What B Wants" and here is the recap. I had my relationship expert Mav on deck to find out whats the issue with me closing the deal on prospects. So while we were at the restaurant this is what happened as soon as we sat down.

Server: What can I get yall to drink?
Me: Do yall have any drink specials?
Server: I am the drink special!!!!
Me: *places menu over my face embarrassed*
Friend: Well I want you
Server: I got you!!!

Why couldn't i say something savvy like that instead of crawling into my shell. Thats why I have my relationship expert Mav on deck. He is the one who seems to not have a problem being in the public eye and making things happen, I can always count on him to close the deal. So he was not there when this went down but i immediately called him and he came to my rescue. See I believe I am a great conversationalist, I can stimulate your mind. But what does that mean when I cant even get a number to continue the act of wooing. Yes, I am old school I believe in courting and taking time to know a person before you jump into something committed or long term. It takes more than one day and one date to get into a relationship with me. So Mav told me that in my conversation with people i get into the friend zone and people lose interest in dating or anything else because I have become now "a friend". I agree but I think that friends are the best lovers. Then I asked myself, "Hows that working out for you?" "Not too good", I replied. So I have to change my ways to start appealing to the crowds. After a long nights conversation I was made to get the number of the server because she had hooked us up with drinks. I have a lot of insecurities that totally make me shy but they pressured me to do it. So we got the number and I stored in my phone never to use it cause I am ULTIMATELY scared of rejection. Hey it could be the wrong number!!!! What are some of your closing the deal techniques help ya boi out.

BC CHANDLER

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