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Continuing from my previous post here are other qualities that i possess that you should look for in your mate. I know I can not be everyones personal boo but if you use B as a model of what you want then you cant go wrong....lol
3. Attractiveness
I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important to some people nonetheless. A great mate will not only want to look good for you, but also for them. They should always look their best and be well put together – matching draws is a definite plus (we notice when you put that work in). Men have to be proud to have their women on their arm and enjoy the sight of her in any light. And this doesn’t mean that she has to be a Halle Berry clone. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so if you think her big ol’ booty svelte figure or his scruffy haven't shaved in month looks are beautiful, you’re allowed.
4. Respect
This is very important. Your partner must respect you. This means that they listen to you, even if they don’t necessarily agree with what you’re saying. And, of course, they never try to humiliate or demean you in any way, shape or form. A phenomenal person won’t ever cause scenes in public or in front of your friends and family, and will always wait to discuss matters with you in private. If they respect you, chances are that they will behave in a tactful and diplomatic manner in most situations, which is definitely a good thing.
5. Non-Controlling
Do not – I repeat – DO NOT get involved with someone who tries to get you to eat goat cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that you give up the things you love most. You will end up resenting them more than you can imagine. A good partner lets you be you in all your glory, dirty draws and all. They have to realize the differences that men and women have and should allow you to be yourself. But within those means be mindful that something things they want you to change are better for you, like those dirty draws.....lol
BC CHANDLER
Friday, June 25, 2010
You Need A ME!!! (Part 2)
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